Bear with me, as this will be a long road… I am reminded of a scene from one of my favorite, albeit chilling, movies, Silence of the Lambs. In it, the villain, James Gumb, also known as Buffalo Bill, battles with the issue of seeing himself differently than the rest of the world does. He … Continue reading It Puts The Lotion On It’s Skin…
The Importance of Being Earnest…
Earnest is defined as resulting from or showing sincere and intense conviction. And a conviction is a firmly held belief. Are you being earnest in your everyday life? Do you struggle to be earnest? We all believe in things, we believe the sun will come up tomorrow, we believe that the sky is blue, and … Continue reading The Importance of Being Earnest…
Through The Looking Glass
A wise Jedi once said, "Fear leads to Anger, Anger leads to hate. Hate leads to Suffering." Fear causes all kinds of dilemmas and as LGBTQ people; it is an emotion that we learn at a very early age. Being found out for who we are causes an intense amount of fear and we typically … Continue reading Through The Looking Glass
Finding my needle in a haystack…
I mentioned that I came from a small town in southwestern Virginia, in a previous post Cleveland Dating Woes. I don’t regret it, it was hard growing up there but I wouldn't have changed it. Afterall, I met my first love there. So it cannot be all bad. Dating was so easy, when I first … Continue reading Finding my needle in a haystack…
Cleveland Dating Woes.
In the short time I have lived in Cleveland, I have found the dating scene to be interesting. Being a southern born and raised guy, I am used to functioning a certain way when it comes to dating and courtship. Courtship, there is a word that you don’t see used in this modern age. Mostly, … Continue reading Cleveland Dating Woes.
Gay in the CLE 