Your needs aren’t the problem, staying silent about them is.
Talking About Needs without Apologizing
Your needs aren’t the problem, staying silent about them is.
Reclaiming Touch in a Body that has Changed
Holding his hand gave me more peace than anything I had spent years chasing.
Intimacy After 40: Why Emotional Availability Matters More Than Chemistry
If there is one constant in this Universe it is that change is constant. From the weather to our own bodies, it is all a cycle. Every aspect of this machine we call a body is changing every single day. Some of those changes are brought on by learning new things and others are brought … Continue reading Intimacy After 40: Why Emotional Availability Matters More Than Chemistry
Why Gay Men are Taught to Outrun Their Feelings
The hardest race many of us will ever run is the one where we finally stop.
Midlife Isn’t a Crisis – It’s a Reckoning With the Truth
Midlife isn’t a crisis — it’s the moment the stories we believed about our lives stop working.
What Health Anxiety Taught Me About Control
I wasn’t just being responsible. I was afraid.
Doctor Visits, Fear, and Learning to Advocate for Yourself After 40
Being a ‘good patient’ almost taught me how to disappear from my own care.
Living With a Chronic Condition in Midlife: What Stability Really Looks Like
Chronic illness in midlife often poses its own unique set of challenges.
Winter Bodies: Slowing Down Without Giving Up on Yourself
No one tells Queer men what aging actually feels like.
What No One Tells Queer Men About Aging (Until it is Already Happening)
No one tells gay men what aging actually feels like.
Gay in the CLE 