In honor of it being National LGBTQ History Month I thought I would dedicate my blog to sharing coming out stories, facts and or questions about coming out, LGBTQ history tidbits, and things that are important but feel good at the same time. So, sit back, read, and as always let me know what you think. As this isn’t my personal post but from another website, I apologize for the lack of inclusion. Their website does have great information, just wasn’t much in the way of inclusion in this post.
Myths and Facts about Sexual Orientation in Identity
There are lots of myths about sexual orientations and what they all mean – we clear the misconceptions up and give you the facts about what different sexualities mean. Republished with the permission of LGBT Youth Scotland. https://www.lgbtyouth.org.uk
Myth: Being lesbian, gay or bisexual is just a phase.
Fact: Lots of people do experiment with their sexuality, but for lesbian, gay and bisexual people, being attracted to the same gender or both genders all their life is no different to straight people being attracted to the opposite sex.
Myth: Being lesbian, gay or bisexual is a choice/lifestyle.
Fact: People do not choose who they are attracted to, whether they are lesbian, gay, bisexual or straight.
Myth: Lesbian, gay and bisexual people can be cured.
Fact: There is no valid scientific evidence that shows a person’s sexual orientation can be changed, but many experts have warned that trying to do so can be extremely damaging.
Myth: Being lesbian, gay or bisexual is unnatural.
Fact: There is nothing unnatural about being attracted to or loving someone regardless of their gender.
Myth: Being lesbian, gay or bisexual means you can’t be religious.
Fact: Although some religions/ faiths still condemn being lesbian, gay or bisexual, lots of LGBT people are religious or follow the teachings of a religion.
Myth: Bisexual people are just confused.
Fact: Many people are attracted to more than one gender all their lives and don’t feel any more confused over their sexual orientation than anyone else.
Myth: Bisexual people are greedy.
Fact: Being attracted to more than one gender doesn’t make a person greedy, it’s no different from being attracted to one.
Myth: Bisexual people are just gay or lesbian people who haven’t admitted it yet.
Fact: Some gay and lesbian people will identify as bisexual first as part of the coming out process, whereas other people who first identify as gay or lesbian people may later identify as bisexual, but many people happily identify as bisexual all their life.
Myth: It’s fashionable to be bi.
Fact: Some people may think its cool/fashionable to be bisexual, but this type of attitude can prevent people who are genuinely bisexual from being taken seriously. This links back to ideas of sexual orientation being a choice or a lifestyle that can be changed.
Myth: Lesbians/gay men fancy every woman/man they see.
Fact: Some lesbians/gay men will be attracted to lots of women/men and some just a few; most will be somewhere in the middle. Your sexual orientation has no direct relation to how many or how few people you are attracted to and is no different to heterosexual people’s attraction to people of the opposite gender.
Myth: Lesbians/gay men are promiscuous and will try and jump into bed with every woman/man they meet.
Fact: Again, a person’s sexual orientation has nothing to do with how many or how few partners a person will have.
Myth: All lesbians are butch/All gay men are camp.
Fact: Gay, lesbian and bisexual people are as varied as straight people. Some lesbians will be butch and some won’t. Some gay men will be camp and some won’t. You should never feel pressure to act a certain way or change how you behave just because of your sexual orientation.