Your True Authentic Self

We all have heard it and often times we may even get tired of hearing it, but it is important to come out. It's important on so many levels and we must also realize that it isn't a one time event. It is important for others to see us as LGBTQ people; to see us [...]

Flaming River Con

This past Saturday was the second annual Flaming River Con and was held in Rocky River at the West Shore Unitarian Universalists Church. I brought my best friends who happen to be a straight married couple and we decided to check it out. I had been excited for going since they announced the event early [...]

#Kiltlife

Often, when I am out, I am asked why do I wear a kilt. It's usually combined with are you Irish or Scottish. On occasion I get a rude comment or two. A lot of just looks, but it's usually the why? The simple answer is that I like them, but it starts a deeper [...]

Silent Masses

A Gallup Poll in 2017 showed that 4.5% of Americans verbally identified as being LGBTQ. It's a staggering statistic to imagine. Four out of every 100 hundred people are LGBTQ. I was at an event at work recent and we had about 170 people in attendance. There were 10 LGBTQ that I was personally aware of, [...]

Finding my needle in a haystack…

I mentioned that I came from a small town in southwestern Virginia, in a previous post Cleveland Dating Woes. I don’t regret it, it was hard growing up there but I wouldn't have changed it. Afterall, I met my first love there. So it cannot be all bad.  Dating was so easy, when I first [...]

Gay Rights Movement vs. Civil Rights Movement

We should be learning from those that have laid the very groundwork for fighting for civil liberties. We also should be cognizant of the fact that many of those pioneers were, in fact, fighting for LGBTQ rights at the same time they were fighting for civil rights. This Ted Talk shows how the Gay Rights [...]