Happy New Year

I wanted to thank each of you that has taken time to be a part of my blog this year. It is a joy when I log in and see the new visitors and people who like the posts I have made. I write for each and every one of you guys, I only want … Continue reading Happy New Year

Christmas Movie Top 5

So, it’s the last week of the year and it’s also the week of Christmas, so it is time for an obligatory Top Five list. For me it’s going to be movie, you know because no one has ever done a Top Five movie list for Christmas.   5. Krampus (2015) – Well over all … Continue reading Christmas Movie Top 5

A Child Stuck In A Well

I spent most of the month posting about body and sex positivity and I figured I would wrap it up with a reality check. The body positive movement is a good thing, for some people. Just like life, it isn’t a blanket statement. No one can ever tell you to love who you are for … Continue reading A Child Stuck In A Well

The Strongest Magic

One can argue for or against the usage of labels, but they do serve a purpose. Often times those labels become convoluted and limiting. There are labels that people use to describe types of people that are damaging and breed internalized hatred, knowingly or not. There are labels that are used to describe how a … Continue reading The Strongest Magic

Obscenity To Follow

The First Amendment of the United States Constitution states "Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof; or abridging the freedom of speech, or of the press; or the right of the people peaceably to assemble, and to petition the Government for a redress of grievances." This … Continue reading Obscenity To Follow

Looking For Light In The Darkness

The World can be a dark place, that's for sure. Each time you turn on the TV, open Twitter or Facebook, check your Instagram posts, or even listen to your podcasts, there is always some note of darkness. This Administration is trying the damndest to roll back everything they can about protection status for our … Continue reading Looking For Light In The Darkness

Everyone Else Is Doing It…

So December 17th will be Tumblr's last day for porn. Those of you that may not know, Tumblr is a blogging platform that specializes in pictures, videos, gif, and smaller blocks of text. It is what would happen if Twitter and Facebook had a love child. It became the easy platform for small time pornography, … Continue reading Everyone Else Is Doing It…

Cruise Control

"Knock three times on the ceiling, if you want me. Twice on the pipe if the answer is no…" The art of cruising has evolved so much over the years. The signals gay men once used to express interest are all but a lost art form. Mention hanky code and most may think you mean … Continue reading Cruise Control

Warmer Thoughts

Today is a more chillier day in Cleveland and my canvas kilt is a bit more breezy than I thought it would be this morning. So in retaliation, I am posting to pictures I took last spring with my best friend Tammy McFarland Mellert. You can find her on YouTube, where she does reviews about … Continue reading Warmer Thoughts

It Puts The Lotion On It’s Skin…

Bear with me, as this will be a long road… I am reminded of a scene from one of my favorite, albeit chilling, movies, Silence of the Lambs. In it, the villain, James Gumb, also known as Buffalo Bill, battles with the issue of seeing himself differently than the rest of the world does. He … Continue reading It Puts The Lotion On It’s Skin…