When I was in high school, I started martial arts. The teacher we had tried to impress upon us the importance of meditating.
Sexual Fluidity
We live in a world that has been tailored for Cis gendered heterosexual interactions. We see it in television shows, movies, literature, advertising, and just about everywhere else. We are told we have to adapt to fit into this world. If we ask for the same privileges that others have, we are told we are … Continue reading Sexual Fluidity
Nature vs. Nurture
I sit here writing in January of 2021 and some part of me is still surprised that the nature vs nuture debate for LGBTQ people still exists. If you are familiar, it basically states that being LGBTQ comes down to being born that way or a product of how/where you are brought up. This isn’t … Continue reading Nature vs. Nurture
A Farewell To 2020
This year has been unlike anything most of us have had to witness before. We have watched as a virus has rampaged across the world, infecting millions and leaving so many dead. The last epidemic that has touched us to this degree would be the AIDS epidemic of the 1980s. As a comparison, AIDS has … Continue reading A Farewell To 2020
The Spirit of Christmas Past
Dating someone who is super into Christmas is hard when you, yourself, are not. In fact, many people roll their eyes at you when you tell them that you just aren't that into the holiday. I have been called the Grinch or Scrooge so many times that it only further separates my feelings for it. … Continue reading The Spirit of Christmas Past
What’s Not Cheating?
I look at tons of articles, videos, Youtube channels to come up with ideas on what to talk about. Sometimes its an exhausting search but every now and then I find something that literally gives me the double take what the actual fuck look. This is one of them. Many of us are familiar with … Continue reading What’s Not Cheating?
What Is Home.
Home is one of those words that we know when we experience it. If you ask someone to define home, then you get almost as many different answers as there are people. Home can be as simple as four walls and a roof but is also so much more. After all, home is where the … Continue reading What Is Home.
Home Is Where The Pride Is.
A lot can be said about families. We are born into one that is based on genetics and blood. Born into a family that is supposed to love you unconditionally. However, we know that is not always the truth. As LGBTQ, many of us learn to adopt a family. And this family is then made … Continue reading Home Is Where The Pride Is.
Freedom of Speech and Social Media
The last four years has been a roller coaster ride, no one can deny that. Since the 2016 election that brought Trump in as president, we have seen a steady increase in hate crimes. We have watched as hate groups have taken more of a center stage in media reports. We have watch as citizens … Continue reading Freedom of Speech and Social Media
Top Ten Bad Sexy Costumes
Okay, so it's pretty easy to say that Halloween is a kids holiday. But adults also seem to corner the market on its fun. After all what would this time of year be without some fun Halloween Parties. Watching scary movies, drinking themed drinks, showing up in costume, and even taking part in some old … Continue reading Top Ten Bad Sexy Costumes
Gay in the CLE 