A diverse group of mature gay men in their 50s, 60s, and beyond, smiling and enjoying a moment together in a relaxed outdoor setting, such as a park or café. The atmosphere is warm and joyful, highlighting connection, wisdom, and pride in aging. The background is softly blurred with natural tones, and subtle hints of LGBTQ+ colors are incorporated into the scene, symbolizing resilience, celebration, and community among older gay men.
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When you turn 30, you are in Gay middle age. When you pass 35, you might as well be dead.

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Every day we are told that we need to drink more water, we need more focus on our hydration.

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Halloween, Horror, & Hearses: A GenX Memoir

But for me, the darker side of things, just like Halloween, is a love that started in my childhood.