Our bodies are an amazing bundle of nerves that allow us to experience feelings in ways that can be incomprehensible. A light graze from someone we are attracted to can send tingles, goosebumps, and spark feelings that shake us to our very core. From our youth to adulthood we experience and are taught what the primary ones are and learn how to use them. Those alone can give us states of amazing euphoria but what if I told you there are 5 Lesser Known Erogenous Zone that can turn you on. Read on to find out more.
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We first start learning what makes us feel good at a young age. By the time puberty hits us, we have already explored our bodies, to some degree, and start to learn what feels good. Even if we don’t understand the mechanics. Puberty hits us, full swing, hormones surge and suddenly our bodies are enveloped by a fiery storm of sensations. The bad part is that we focus on the main ones, nipples, skin, and our genitals. After all, those are the ones that produce orgasms and make us feel good. But, are they the only ones?
It is easy to focus on what makes us feel good. An image pops into our mind and suddenly a physical reaction is felt and our best little friend wakes up. We learn that touching it makes us feel good and leads to an explosive ending with feelings that remind us how fireworks look. This ritual is repeated over and over again as we age. School doesn’t talk about other parts of the body that can make us feel good, our parents barely have a sex talk with us, and we are often too ashamed to ask for advice. It is no surprise that we forget there are other parts of us that can elicit amazing sensations and get to a similar place as just the tried and true methods.
If you are finding yourself in a sexual rut or maybe playing with your sexual preferences, here are 5 Lesser Known Erogenous Zones To Turn You On.
5.Back
When we hear the word ‘foreplay’ our mind races to things like oral sex, mutual masturbation, and lightly caressing our sexual organs. Have you ever considered the back to be one of those areas to focus foreplay on? Probably not and how exactly would you do it?
The internet has so many things in its criss-crossed lanes of information. One that there is no shortage of is massage porn and there is a reason for it. Working your partner’s back with a relaxing sensual massage can do wonders to spark the libido, for you both. After all, they are splayed out in front of you naked and exposed with so many places to touch that have nerves connected to it. Grab some oil and slowly go to work, focusing on areas of tension before you get more insistent.
Want to spice it up a bit more? Once you have gotten them relaxed and you want to make it a bit more erotic, slowly run the tip of your tongue from the top of their buttocks to the base of their neck and back a few times. It is guaranteed to send shivers of antici- pation coursing all over their bodies. Lightly grazing them with your fingertips can cause sensations they dont feel often and adds to the excitement level. Watch and listen for their reactions to know what is hitting the spot or not. Try different things and see how they affect them.
4.Ears and neck
I combined these two as they are in relative close proximity to one another. Yes, we all know that kissing can be is a turn on. Licking their lips and sucking the tongue can cause an overload in sensations, but they aren’t the only places on the head that can.
Did you know that kissing someone on their neck send out signals to the circulatory system? It increases the blood flow to that area increasing its sensitivity, much like the penis or clitoris, try switching between kissing their lips to kissing there neck, it is sure to get a response. Are you looking to increase that effect? Try humming or moaning when you do it, The added sensation of vibrations caused by the sound will heighten their arousal. Hint – you can use the humming trick in many places for the same effect,
This trick also works for the ear. Use it more sparingly so it doesnt overload the sensations all at once and you may be surprised to find out that those things alone can bring your partner to a climax they never experienced. Here is an advanced level tip, if you both are engaging in masturbation together (a must try), lean over and lick and nibble on their ear, you both may be surprised by the intensity of your respective climaxes.
3.Feet
Okay, you knew this one was coming up. After all, the internet, magazines and more talk about foot fetishes or podophilia. It is, after all, the most common sexual fetish. I also get that for many, it is a turn off. But it also may be worth investing sometime into this play, if it is beneficial for you or your partner. You won’t know until you try and it is probably one of the easier fetishes to try out with a positive response from your partner.
Beginners level to foot exploration. Start by light touches along the pad of the foot, maybe a massage. Run your fingers between their toes or caress each one individually. Try using various objects like hair brushes, feathers, and such. Each can cause a different type of sensation. If those go over well, you can slowly build up to sucking their toes or licking the tops and soles of their feet. See if they or you are into it or not. Remember two important things here. 1. Respect boundaries, if either of you aren’t into it, say so. 2. Well washed feet are a must.
2.Nipples
I think this is where straight men may have, somewhat of, an advantage here. For most of us, nipples are an afterthought when it comes to sex. Many of us have never explored our own to understand the feelings they can cause and as such they may not be overly sensitive. Practice can help with this. Next time you are with your partner, whether you are just kissing or maybe engaged in orally pleasing them, reach up and lightly play with their nipples. See how they respond. Does it cause them to moan? Maybe their body reacts specifically to the sensations. It might interest you to know that some people have their nipples directly hot-wired to the genitals. Hitting it just right may cause the ever elusive hands-free orgasm
If they respond well to light touching, slowly start adding something a little harder or squeeze them. This may result in them realizing they need more play to get to the endzone. From there, the sky’s the limit over what you can incorporate with nipple play.
Take pleasure in seeing you and your partner getting off from a surprising corner of the body that you may have never touched, sexually, before. Want to learn more about nipple play, head over to Down An’ Dirty for an informative guide on what to do and try.
1.Perineum
Some of you may think that is a spell you learn at Hogwarts, no it is actually better known as the taint. It is that wonderful bundle of nerves that ends directly between your anus and the end of your genital areas (ballsack area). In cis-gendered men, this is the outward location of where the prostate is located. As such, it can cause a varied amount of sensations, when teased.
How do you stimulate it, you are probably asking? The next time you are going down on your partner, slowly start moving downwards, licking and sucking. You can alternate between rimming them and teasing the perineum. If that is too much for you, just yet, no worries. That area is also easily stimulated by your fingers. Try lightly probing the area with your fingers or your knuckles. You can use this trick during almost any stage of sex. If you are going down on a guy, teasing this area can have the added benefit of a slightly extended orgasm and slightly more intense climax.
Going the extra mile
Now that you have learned a few new areas of the body to explore, it is time to take it to the next level and add some things to it. The best, cheapest, and easiest things to try are textures and temperatures. These add to the sensory overload and can help slow down the inevitable or take it to heights you haven’t had in a long time or at all. A tried and true example is the ice cube, yes it has been overdone in movies for a reason.Perhaps you need some inspiration on how to incorporate temperatures into your sexual routine, head on over to Emen8 for their article about mind-blowing blowjobs. For textures, brushes were mentioned earlier but you could also use fabrics, as well. Lightly touching body parts that have a sheet draped over them changes the sensation a lot.
Have you tried any of these body parts in your romantic life? If so, how did they work out for you? If not, would you want to try them out? Why or why not? What things do you incorporate to help heighten the sensations? Let me know in the comments below. Your comments may be included in a future article. Best case, it may give someone new insights on things to try to spice up their love lives a little more.
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