Sexual Fluidity

We live in a world that has been tailored for Cis gendered heterosexual interactions. We see it in television shows, movies, literature, advertising, and just about everywhere else. We are told we have to adapt to fit into this world. If we ask for the same privileges that others have, we are told we are [...]

Nature vs. Nurture

I sit here writing in January of 2021 and some part of me is still surprised that the nature vs nuture debate for LGBTQ people still exists. If you are familiar, it basically states that  being LGBTQ comes down to being born that way or a product of how/where you are brought up. This isn’t [...]

Top 5 LGBTQ Christmas Movies

All too often, when we watch Christmas movies we are forced to see heterosexual couples getting all the spot light.  If we are lucky, we sometimes get a bit part in a movie or tv show. Most of the time it's just the subtext that shows up. I thought I would compile a list of [...]

Top Ten Bizarre Christmas Songs

***Warning, this post is NSFW and may contain material and opinions that some deem offensive. If you are offended easily, please hit the back button now*** We all have our go to favorites for our Christmas playlists. I even shared some of my favorite 80s Christmas songs with you last week. Classics are good and [...]

Crazy Christmas Tree Traditions

Christmas trees are the quintessential piece of the holidays. People go absolutely crazy with their ideas for decorating them. There are even people who leave their trees up all year long, to keep that holiday spirit going. During the holiday, there are also plenty of people who decorate multiple trees. Have you ever wondered where [...]

10 Weird Christmas Traditions

Christmas traditions are everywhere, like hanging your stockings by the fire on Christmas Eve and leaving out milk and cookies. There are also traditions that families started. Have you ever wondered what other traditions there might be for this magical night of the year? Let’s take a look at a few of the more weird [...]

Top Ten 80s Christmas Songs

Okay, you are probably wondering why I am doing a Top Ten list of Christmas songs when I have stated that I am not a real Christmas person. It’s simply my friends, I absolutely love 80s music and it seems that pop stars of the 80s were much better at doing Christmas songs then any [...]

The Spirit of Christmas Past

Dating someone who is super into Christmas is hard when you, yourself, are not. In fact, many people roll their eyes at you when you tell them that you just aren't that into the holiday.  I have been called the Grinch or Scrooge so many times that it only further separates my feelings for it. [...]

LGBTQ Blamed For Covid-19

I realize that it shouldn’t shock me that LGBTQ people are blamed for things that happen on the daily. After all, Pat Robertson has said that hurricanes are God’s way of trying to punish us. Weird belief when it seems to impact so many more than just LGBTQ people. As this pandemic seems to be [...]

Thanksgiving Memories…

What really made it for me was when I started putting together my own family of friends. Coming together for Thanksgiving and Christmas took on different meanings than some of the pain and struggles that came with gathering with relatives. There are two very vivid points in my history that were pivotal changes of my [...]